"Dear Art, Three Months Ago, I Was Laid Off. I Havenโ€™t Been Able to Find a Job"

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Question from Stevie:

Art, three months ago, I was laid off. I haven’t been able to find another job since. I am running out of money and am concerned, so I am seeking any advice that I can get. Do you have any advice for me? For what it’s worth, I have a wife and two high school-aged kids.

Response from Art:

Stevie, I'm truly sorry to hear about this. I understand how tough this situation must be, especially with a family depending on you. Let me offer some advice, both practical and grounded in faith, that may help you navigate this difficult time and find your next job.

1. Present your concern to God.

Begin by bringing your worries and needs before God in prayer. He is a compassionate and understanding Father who knows the depth of your struggle. In Matthew 6:25-34, Jesus reassures us not to be anxious about our lives, encouraging us to seek God's kingdom first and trust that He will provide for our needs. Share your fears and concerns with Him, and ask for His guidance.

2. Lean into Him and trust in His provision.

As you face this uncertainty, trust in God's provision and timing. God can and will provide according to what he knows is best. Your faith can be a source of strength and hope. Keep trusting in God, even when things seem bleak.

Assuming you have an updated resume, here are some practical steps you can take:

1. Aggressively network.

Reach out to friends, former colleagues, and professional contacts. Let them know you're actively seeking new opportunities. Networking can often uncover job leads that aren’t advertised publicly.

2. Expand the types of jobs you’re looking at.

Consider widening your job search to include roles or industries you might not have initially thought of. Sometimes, a different position or field might offer new opportunities that align with your skills and experience.

3. Expand your region.

If it’s feasible for you, look beyond your immediate geographic area. Remote work opportunities are still out there (though less than the used to be), and relocating for a position might be a viable option if it fits your family’s needs. I know relocating is not ideal with two high school-aged children, but depending on the opportunities available in your current area, you may need to consider it.

4. Be ridiculously prepared for every job interview.

Prepare thoroughly for each interview by researching the company, understanding the job requirements, and practicing your responses. Demonstrating your commitment and preparedness can set you apart from other candidates.

5. Stay positive and work hard.

Maintain a positive outlook, as your attitude can greatly impact your job search. Continue to put in the effort and perseverance, and remember that every step you take is bringing you closer to a new opportunity.

6. Talk with your spouse about the finances.

Open and honest communication with your spouse about your financial situation is crucial. Working together to create a budget and plan for managing expenses during this time can help reduce stress and make the situation more manageable for both of you.

In this season of uncertainty, lean on your faith, utilize all available resources, and remain hopeful. God is with you, and He will guide you through this time.